“Do’s and Don’t’s of Texting in Family Law Cases”
Texting is rapidly becoming the most common form of modern communication. It is used extensively in cases where custody and visitation schedules are being discussed, followed, or changed. They often end up in evidence in a contested court hearing. Here are some do’s and don’t’s to keep in mind:
DO make sure your communications are polite, despite your feelings. You are trying to solve problems, not get back at your ex. Only say things you are OK with the judge reading.
DON’T throw blame for past problems. Keep the discussion to the topic at hand.
DO make sure you are very clear in your texts. Make sure times, dates, and locations are clearly specified so that there is no confusion.
DON’T use swearing or insults. This one should be self-explanatory.
DO keep all of your text messages. You might regret it if you erase or clear out what can be important messages.
DON’T mix phone conversations and text conversations without following up with a confirming text. Strings of texts that are interspersed with phone calls can be extremely difficult to untangle later since there will be missing pieces.
DO put agreements to change visitation schedules in writing. Texts are very good for the purpose.
DISCLAIMER: All legal principles quoted are valid as of the date of writing in the State of California. However, you should NEVER base your actions on a legal article, blog, or internet story, as facts in real life are complicated. You should have your case evaluated by an attorney experienced in the area of law needed for your case. In addition, there are often exceptions and potential changes to results that occur due to facts that you may think are trivial or unimportant. This article should not be taken in any way as legal advice on your specific legal matter.
NOTICE: This blog and all materials on our website constitute advertisement materials, and the promulgation of such materials is meant for the residents of the State of California only. The attorneys and this firm do not practice law in any other state. In addition, the promulgation of these articles does not in any way create an attorney-client relationship and any inquiries and information you may send to the attorneys should be general and not specific, as they are not confidential.
“Do’s and Don’t’s of Texting in Family Law Cases”
Texting is rapidly becoming the most common form of modern communication. It is used extensively in cases where custody and visitation schedules are being discussed, followed, or changed. They often end up in evidence in a contested court hearing. Here are some do’s and don’t’s to keep in mind:
DO make sure your communications are polite, despite your feelings. You are trying to solve problems, not get back at your ex. Only say things you are OK with the judge reading.
DON’T throw blame for past problems. Keep the discussion to the topic at hand.
DO make sure you are very clear in your texts. Make sure times, dates, and locations are clearly specified so that there is no confusion.
DON’T use swearing or insults. This one should be self-explanatory.
DO keep all of your text messages. You might regret it if you erase or clear out what can be important messages.
DON’T mix phone conversations and text conversations without following up with a confirming text. Strings of texts that are interspersed with phone calls can be extremely difficult to untangle later since there will be missing pieces.
DO put agreements to change visitation schedules in writing. Texts are very good for the purpose.
DISCLAIMER: All legal principles quoted are valid as of the date of writing in the State of California. However, you should NEVER base your actions on a legal article, blog, or internet story, as facts in real life are complicated. You should have your case evaluated by an attorney experienced in the area of law needed for your case. In addition, there are often exceptions and potential changes to results that occur due to facts that you may think are trivial or unimportant. This article should not be taken in any way as legal advice on your specific legal matter.
NOTICE: This blog and all materials on our website constitute advertisement materials, and the promulgation of such materials is meant for the residents of the State of California only. The attorneys and this firm do not practice law in any other state. In addition, the promulgation of these articles does not in any way create an attorney-client relationship and any inquiries and information you may send to the attorneys should be general and not specific, as they are not confidential.
“Do’s and Don’t’s of Texting in Family Law Cases”
Texting is rapidly becoming the most common form of modern communication. It is used extensively in cases where custody and visitation schedules are being discussed, followed, or changed. They often end up in evidence in a contested court hearing. Here are some do’s and don’t’s to keep in mind:
DO make sure your communications are polite, despite your feelings. You are trying to solve problems, not get back at your ex. Only say things you are OK with the judge reading.
DON’T throw blame for past problems. Keep the discussion to the topic at hand.
DO make sure you are very clear in your texts. Make sure times, dates, and locations are clearly specified so that there is no confusion.
DON’T use swearing or insults. This one should be self-explanatory.
DO keep all of your text messages. You might regret it if you erase or clear out what can be important messages.
DON’T mix phone conversations and text conversations without following up with a confirming text. Strings of texts that are interspersed with phone calls can be extremely difficult to untangle later since there will be missing pieces.
DO put agreements to change visitation schedules in writing. Texts are very good for the purpose.
DISCLAIMER: All legal principles quoted are valid as of the date of writing in the State of California. However, you should NEVER base your actions on a legal article, blog, or internet story, as facts in real life are complicated. You should have your case evaluated by an attorney experienced in the area of law needed for your case. In addition, there are often exceptions and potential changes to results that occur due to facts that you may think are trivial or unimportant. This article should not be taken in any way as legal advice on your specific legal matter.
NOTICE: This blog and all materials on our website constitute advertisement materials, and the promulgation of such materials is meant for the residents of the State of California only. The attorneys and this firm do not practice law in any other state. In addition, the promulgation of these articles does not in any way create an attorney-client relationship and any inquiries and information you may send to the attorneys should be general and not specific, as they are not confidential.